Bbn-c-¯n-semcphÄ

BapJw

ssewKn-I-Xbv¡pw ]W-¯n\pw th­n sIme]m-X-I-§Ä \S-¯p-¶Xv \½Ä ]e-t¸mgpw tIÄ¡p-¶-Xm-Wv. F¶m CXn\p th­n {Iqc-Ir-Xy-§Ä sN¿p¶Xv hyàn-bpsS at\m-\n-b-{´-W-¯nesÃ-¦n AsXmcp tcmK-am-Wv. NnIn-Õn¨p amäm³ Ign-bm¯ am\-knI tcmKw. C¯-c-samch-Øsb kv{XoI-fn-em-sW-¦n \nwt^m-am-\nb F¶pw ]pcp-j-·m-cn Ìmdn-bm-knkw F¶pw Adn-b-s¸-Sp-¶p. C¯cw {Iqc-Ir-Xy-§-fn GÀs¸-Sp-¶-hÀ kaq-l-¯nsâ ap¶n XnI¨pw am\y-amb hyàn-Xz-ap-Å-h-cm-bmWv s]cp-am-dp-¶-Xv. asämcmÄ¡pw kwi-b-an-ÃmsX CS-s]-Sm-\pÅ NmXp-cyhpw ChÀ¡p-­v. C§-s\-bpÅ Pko\ F¶ Akm-[m-cW kv{XobpsS Pohn-X-amWv ChnsS Ah-X-cn-¸n-¡p-¶-Xv.

SYNOPSIS

XnI¨pw kpµ-c-amb {Kma-amWv Nnäm-«p-I-c. Ahn-Sps¯ {]i-kvX-amb Hcp {InkvXy³ IpSpw-_-¯nse H-cw-K-amb Pko\ hnhm-l-tijw Hcp henb \K-c-¯n-te¡v `À¯m-hn-s\m¸w F¯p-I-bm-Wv. Abm-fpsS _nkn-\-Ên ]¦m-fn-bm-Ip¶ AhÀ hfsc s]s«¶p Xs¶ Xsâ Ignhp sXfn-bn-¡p-Ibpw s{]m^j-W taJ-e-bn {]i-kvX-bm-hp-Ibpw sN¿p-¶p. [mcmfw Fgp-Xp-Ibpw hmbn-¡p-Ibpw bm{X sN¿p-Ibpw kzX{´ \ne-hm-Sp-I-sf-Sp-¡p-Ibpw kulr-Z-§Ä kq£n-¡p-Ibpw sN¿p¶ kpµ-cn-bm-W-hÀ. AXp-sIm­p Xs¶ AhÄ¡v [mcmfw Bcm-[-I-cp-ap-­v. CâÀs\äv I½yp-Wn-än-I-fn AhÄ hfsc kPo-h-am-Wv. F¶m kzbw a\-Ên-em-¡m³ Ign-bm¯ \nwt^m-am-\nb F¶ am\-knI tcmK-¯nsâ DS-a-bp-am-W-hÀ.

hfsc {Iqc-amb sIme]m-X-I-§Ä¡v B \Kcw km£n-bm-Ip-¶p. F¶m Cu sIme]m-X-I-§-sfm¶pw Xs¶ {]mY-anI At\z-j-W-¯n XnI¨pw km[m-c-W-amb A]-I-S-§tfm Bß-l-Xy-Itfm Bbn-cp-¶p. Pko-\-bpsS `À¯mhpw c­p Ip«n-I-fpw kplr¯pw sImÃs¸-Sp-¶p. ]ns¶bpw \S-¡p¶ ac-W-§Ä¡v ]n¶n Pko-\-bpsS am\-knI tcmK-am-sW¶v Bcpw kwi-bn-¡p-¶n-Ã. Pko\ F¶ kv{Xo kaq-l-¯nsâ ap¶n am\y-bm-sW-¦nepw kz´w IpSpw-_-¯nepw AhÄ sImÃp¶-h-cpsS IpSpw-_-_-Ô-§-fn-ep-­m-Ip¶ {]iv\-§Ä cq£-am-Wv. _Ô-§Ä XI-cp-¶Xpw km¼-¯nI {]iv\-§-fp-­m-Ip-¶Xpw AXv IpSpw-_-¯nse Hmtcm hyàn-tbbpw F§ns\ _m[n-¡p-¶-sh-¶Xpw Pko-\bv¡v {]iv\-tab-Ã.

F¶m Hcp L«-¯n Xsâ-bp-Ånse sIme]m-X-In-sb-¡p-dn¨pw ssewKn-I-X-tbm-SpÅ Aan-Xm-k-àn-sb-¡p-dn¨pw AhÄ hÃmsX DXvI-WvT-s¸-Sm³ XpS-§p-¶p. AtX XpSÀ¶v Xm³ ]nSn-¡-s¸Spw F¶ `bw hf-cp-Ibpw sN¿p-¶p. tUmIvSÀ AcpWpw dmÂ^pw Pko-\-bn \n¶pw AÛp-X-I-c-ambn c£-s¸-Sp-¶Xv AhfpsS Pohn-X-K-Xnsb amäp-¶p. kp\n amXyp F¶ {Inan-\ sskt¡m-f-Pn-Ìnsâ klm-b-t¯msS Pko-\-bnse am\-knI tcmKn-tbbpw AXn \n¶p-­mb sIme]m-X-I-§-fpsS NpcpÄ \nh-cp-Ibpw sN¿p-¶p.

PLOT

BUw-_-c-Po-hn-X-¯n\pw ssewKn-I-Xbv¡pw th­n F´pw sN¿m³ aSn-bn-Ãm-bn-cp¶p Pko\ F¶ kv{Xobv¡v. Pko-\-bpsS aSn-bn Xe-sh¨p InS-¡p¶ ]m{SnIv Xsâ ap³Ime Pohn-X-s¯-¡p-dn-t¨mÀ¡p-¶p. Ct¸mÄ i¿m-h-ew-_-\mb Xs¶ AXoh kpµ-cn-bmb Pko\ ip{iq-jn-¡p-¶p. Pohn-X-¯nse F{Xtbm kt´m-j-I-c-amb \nan-j-§-fn-eqsS R§Ä IS-¶p-h-¶p. CW-¡-§fpw ]nW-¡-§fpw \nd-sªmcp Pohn-Xw. Ah-fpsS hnhm-lm-`yÀ°-\-I-sfÃmw Rm³ \nc-kn¨p sIm­ncp-¶p. CXn-s\-¡p-dn¨v ]m{SnIv Ipä-t_m-[-t¯msS Pko-\-tbmSv am¸p tNmZn-¡p-¶p.

F¶m Pko\ ]d-bp-¶p, ]m{Sn-Iv, \o GXm\pw \nan-j-§Ä¡Iw acn-¡pw. `£-W-¯n amc-I-amb hnjw IeÀ¯n C©n-©mbn Rm³ \ns¶ sImÃpI-bm-bn-cp-¶p. A§-s\-bmWv \o amdm-tcm-Kn-bm-b-Xv. ]m{Sn-¡nsâ ac-W-¯n BÀ¡pw kwibw tXm¶n-bn-Ã. BÀ`m-S-t¯m-Sp-Iq-Snb PohnXw ]qÀÆm-[nIw `wKn-bmbn AhÄ XpSÀ¶p.

]m{Sn-Insâ kplr-¯mb PmIvk³ Pko-\sb ImWm-s\-¯p-¶p. Pko-\-bpsS kuµ-cy-¯n PmIvk³ BIr-jvS-\m-Ip-¶p. Pko\ Abmsf hio-I-cn-¡p-¶p. Xm³ hnhm-ln-X-\m-sW¶ Imcyw AbmÄ Pko-\-bn \n¶pw ad¨p sh¡p-¶p. PmIvksâ `mcy Abmsf hf-sc-b-[nIw kvt\ln-¡p¶ Hcp kv{Xobm-Wv. CXv Abm-fn Ipä-t_m-[-ap-­m-¡p-¶p. XpSÀ¶v PmIvksâ PohnXw kwLÀj-`-cn-X-am-Ip-¶p. F¶n-cp-¶mepw Pko-\-bn BIr-jvS-\mb AbmÄ Ah-fp-ambn Hcp-
c-l-ky-Po-hnXw \bn-¡p-¶p. PmIvk-\p-am-bpÅ _Ô-¯n AhÄ ]e A]-I-S-§-fnepw sN¶p NmSp-¶p. PmIvk¬ hnhm-ln-X-\m-sW¶ Imcyw Pko\ Adn-bp-¶p. X{´-]-c-ambn Abm-fpsS kzs¯Ãmw Ah-Ä ssI¡-em-¡p-¶p. Abmsf sImÃm³ AhÄ Icp-¡Ä \o¡p-¶p. HSp-hn A{]-Xo-£n-X-amb kml-N-cy-¯n hI-h-cp-¯p-¶p.

Pko-\-bp-am-bpÅ PmIvksâ _Ôw cl-ky-am-b-Xn-\m Bcpw Ahsf kwi-bn-¡p-¶n-Ã. GIm-´X Ahsf De-¨p. Nne ka-b¯v lmeyqkn-t\-j³ A\p-`-h-s¸«p XpS-§n. Xsâ \o¡-§Ä Btcm a\-Ên-em-¡p-¶-Xm-bn, Xs¶ ]n³Xp-S-cp-¶-Xmbn AhÄ¡p tXm¶n. Hcp XpW-bv¡mbn Iq«p-Im-cnbmb ImX-do³ Ah-tfm-sSm¸w Xma-kn-¡p-hm³ XpS§n. Pko-\bv¡v ImX-dosâ \o¡-§Ä kwi-bm-kv]-Z-ambn tXm¶p-¶p Pko\ Icp-¡Ä \o¡p¶p. ImX-dos\ ab-¡p-a-cp-¶n\v ASn-a-bm-¡p-Ibpw sImes¸-Sp-¯p-Ibpw sN¿p-¶p. ImX-dos\ sImes¸-Sp-¯n-b-tXmsS Pko\ IqSp-X `b-s¸-Sm³ XpS-§n. FÃm-h-tcbpw kwi-b-t¯msS t\m¡m³ XpS-§n. {Iqc-Ir-Xy-§Ä sNbvXp-sh-¦nepw kwi-bm-ep-hm-sW-¦nepw Bfp-I-fpsS ap¶n hfsc {]k-¶-h-Xnbpw BVy-Xz-ap-Å-h-fp-ambn Pko\ s]cp-am-dn. kaq-l-¯nsâ ap¶n hyàn-Xz-ap-sÅmcp kv{Xobm-bn-cp¶p Pko-\. AXn-\m Xs¶ aäp-Å-hÀ Ahsf kwi-bn-¨-Xp-an-Ã. Hmtcm sIme]m-XIw sN¿p-t¼mgpw Xsâ ap³Ime PohnXw Ah-fpsS a\-Ên-te¡v hcp¶p­v (Flash back). B ka-b¯v AhÄ Hcp D·m-Znsb (Histeeria)t]mse s]cp-am-dp-¶p. Akm-[m-c-W-amb DÄ`-bhpw lmeq-kn-t\-j\pw Ahsf hÃmsX Akz-Ø-s¸-Sp-¯p-¶p-­v. F¶m GXv kml-k-¯n\v apXn-cm-\p-apÅ DÄt{]-cW (Compulsion) Ah-fn-ep­v .

PzÃdn DS-a-Ø-\mb tPmÀÖv F¶ a[y-h-b-kvIs\ Pko\ t\m«-an-Sp-¶p. ssZh-`-b-apÅ tPmÀÖv c­p Ip«n-I-fp-ambn k´p-jvS-Po-hnXw \bn¡p¶ hyàn-bm-Wv. F¶m Icp-¡Ä \o¡n Abm-fpsS IpSpw_w inYn-e-am-¡p-¶p. tPmÀÖnsâ ap¶n Ipeo-\bmbn s]cp-am-dn-sIm­v Abm-fp-ambn ASp-¡p-¶p. tPmÀÖnsâ `mcy ]nW-§n-t¸m-Ip-¶p. Pko\ tPmÀÖn\pw Ip«n-IÄ¡p-sam¸w Xma-kn-¡m³ XpS-§n. tPmÀÖnsâ `mcy Pko-\-bpsS \o¡-§Ä {i²n-¡p-¶p.

tPmÀÖnsâ c­p Ip«n-IÄ¡pw Aev]m-ev]-ambn hnjw \ÂIn sImÃp¶p. Ipªp-§-fpsS acWw tPmÀÖns\ Pko-\-bp-ambn IqSp-X ASp-¸n-¡p-¶p. (tPmÀÖv A{]-Xo-£n-X-ambn Hcp tIkn IpSp-§p-¶p. AXns\ XpSÀ¶v AbmÄ Xsâ kz¯nsâ \sÃmcp ]¦v cl-ky-ambn Pko-\-bpsS t]cn-em-¡p-¶p. tIkn IpSp-¡p-¶Xv Pko-\-bm-Wv)

Bkq-{Xn-X-ambn X¿m-dm-¡nb Hcp A]-I-S-¯n tPmÀÖv sImÃs¸-Sp-¶p. ac-W-¯n `mcybv¡v kwibw tXm¶p-¶p. t]meokv At\z-j-W-¯n Pko-\-bvs¡-Xnsc H¶pw Is­-¯m-\m-Ip-¶n-Ã. kzm`m-hnI ac-W-ambn t]meokv tIkv Ah-km-\n-¸n-¡p-¶p. Ipd¨p \mfp-IÄ Pko\ GIm-´-hmkw \bn-¡p-¶p. F¶m BÀ`m-S-Po-hn-X-t¯mSpw skIvkn-t\m-Sp-apÅ Xzc Pko-\-bpsS a\-Êns\ hn{`-an-¸n-¡p-¶p. Hcp ]cn-]m-Sn-¡nsS Xs¶-¡mÄ hbÊp Ipdª tUm.-A-cp-Wns\ Pko\ ]cn-N-b-s¸-Sp-¶p. At±lw hnhm-ln-X-\m-Im³ t]mIp¶ hyàn-bm-Wv. F¶m Xsâ NmXpcyw sIm­v Acp-Wns\ AhÄ X¶n-te¡v ASp-¸n-¡p-¶p. F¶m Xm³ hnhmlw Ign-¡m³ t]mIp¶ kv{Xosb NXn-¡m\pw AbmÄ X¿m-dm-Ip-¶n-Ã. X\n¡v {]Xn-tbm-Kn-bmb h[p-hns\ Pko\ sImes¸-Sp-¯p-¶p. {Kma-¯nse hoSp hn¡p-hm³ Acp¬ Pko-\sb \nÀ_-Ôn-¡p-¶p.

hoSv hm§m³ hcp-¶Xv dmÂ^v, tImSo-iz-c³, kpµ-c³, hn`m-cy³. Pko-\-bpsS {i² Abm-fn-te-¡m-Ip-¶p. Xm³ Dt±-in-¡p¶ Xc-¯n-epÅ km¼-¯nI Npäp-]mSv
Acp-Wn-\nà F¶v a\-Ên-em¡nb Pko\ Abmsf Hgn-hm-¡m³ {ian-¡p¶p. AhÄ dmÂ^p-ambn ASp-¡p-¶p.

F¶m Acp-Wn\v Pko-\-bpsS \o¡-§-fn kwibw tXm¶p-¶p. Xsâ kplr-¯mb {Inan-\ sskt¡m-f-PnÌv tUm.kp\n amXyp-hp-ambn CXv NÀ¨ sN¿p-¶p. FÃmw \ocn-£n-¡p¶ AhÀ dmÂ^v sImÃs¸-Sp-sa¶v a\-kn-em-¡p-Ibpw Ahsf IpSp-¡m-\pÅ {ia-§Ä Bcw-`n-¡p-Ibpw sN¿p-¶p.Milton H Ericson F¶ a\x-im-kv{X-Úsâ Covert Hypnosis Technic F¶ kt¦Xw D]-tbm-Kn¨v kp\n amXyp, Pko-\-bpsS ]qÀÆ-Ime PohnXw a\-kn-em-¡p-¶p. hfsc {]i-kvX-amb IpSpw-_-¯nse AwK-am-sW-¦nepw Ac£nX-amb Hcp Ip«n-¡m-e-am-bn-cp¶p Pko-\-bp-tS-Xv. ]e Zpc-´-§-fn
-eq-sSbpw (Truamatic experience) AhÄ IS-¶p-t]m-Ip-¶p-­v. A½-bv¡p-­m-bn-cp¶ cl-ky-_-Ôs¯ AhÄ a\-kn-em-¡p-Ibpw Hcp Peeping Tom s\t¸mse AÑ\pw A½bpw X½n-epÅ _Ôs¯ AhÄ Hfn-ªp-t\m¡n ckn-¡p-Ibpw sNbvXncp-¶p. AhÄ {Iqc-amb ]oU-\-§Ä¡v Cc-bm-bn-«p-­v.

P·\m \nwt^m-am-\n-bmIv Bb Pko\ C¯cw kml-N-cy-§-fn-eqsS IS¶v h¶v IqSp-XÂ am\-knI sshI-ey-ap-Å-h-fmbn amdp-I-bm-bn-cp-¶p.

tUmIvSÀ kp\n amXyphpw Iq«cpw Bkq-{Xn-X-ambn X¿m-dm-¡nb Hcp sIWn-bnÂs¸-Sp¯n Pko-\sb \nb-a-¯n\p ap¶n sIm­ph-cp-¶p. F¶m hyà-amb sXfn-hp-I-fn-Ãm-¯-Xn-\m tImSXn Ahsf shdpsX hnSm³ X¿m-dm-Ip-¶p. F¶m AÑ-s\bpw A½-tbbpw `À¯m-hn-t\bpw c­v Ip«n-I-sfbpw sImes¸-Sp-¯n-b-XpÄs¸sSbpÅ sR«n-¡p¶ kXy-§Ä Gäp-]-dªv Pko\ in£ kzbw Gäp-hm-§p¶p.

Conceived by

Prasad Amore MA, Msc, HPD (NCFE and NCH, U.K)

Consultant Psychologist

Bbn-c-¯n-semcphÄ

BapJw

ssewKn-I-Xbv¡pw ]W-¯n\pw th­n sIme]m-X-I-§Ä \S-¯p-¶Xv \½Ä ]e-t¸mgpw tIÄ¡p-¶-Xm-Wv. F¶m CXn\p th­n {Iqc-Ir-Xy-§Ä sN¿p¶Xv hyàn-bpsS at\m-\n-b-{´-W-¯nesÃ-¦n AsXmcp tcmK-am-Wv. NnIn-Õn¨p amäm³ Ign-bm¯ am\-knI tcmKw. C¯-c-samch-Øsb kv{XoI-fn-em-sW-¦n \nwt^m-am-\nb F¶pw ]pcp-j-·m-cn Ìmdn-bm-knkw F¶pw Adn-b-s¸-Sp-¶p. C¯cw {Iqc-Ir-Xy-§-fn GÀs¸-Sp-¶-hÀ kaq-l-¯nsâ ap¶n XnI¨pw am\y-amb hyàn-Xz-ap-Å-h-cm-bmWv s]cp-am-dp-¶-Xv. asämcmÄ¡pw kwi-b-an-ÃmsX CS-s]-Sm-\pÅ NmXp-cyhpw ChÀ¡p-­v. C§-s\-bpÅ Pko\ F¶ Akm-[m-cW kv{XobpsS Pohn-X-amWv ChnsS Ah-X-cn-¸n-¡p-¶-Xv.

SYNOPSIS

XnI¨pw kpµ-c-amb {Kma-amWv Nnäm-«p-I-c. Ahn-Sps¯ {]i-kvX-amb Hcp {InkvXy³ IpSpw-_-¯nse H-cw-K-amb Pko\ hnhm-l-tijw Hcp henb \K-c-¯n-te¡v `À¯m-hn-s\m¸w F¯p-I-bm-Wv. Abm-fpsS _nkn-\-Ên ]¦m-fn-bm-Ip¶ AhÀ hfsc s]s«¶p Xs¶ Xsâ Ignhp sXfn-bn-¡p-Ibpw s{]m^j-W taJ-e-bn {]i-kvX-bm-hp-Ibpw sN¿p-¶p. [mcmfw Fgp-Xp-Ibpw hmbn-¡p-Ibpw bm{X sN¿p-Ibpw kzX{´ \ne-hm-Sp-I-sf-Sp-¡p-Ibpw kulr-Z-§Ä kq£n-¡p-Ibpw sN¿p¶ kpµ-cn-bm-W-hÀ. AXp-sIm­p Xs¶ AhÄ¡v [mcmfw Bcm-[-I-cp-ap-­v. CâÀs\äv I½yp-Wn-än-I-fn AhÄ hfsc kPo-h-am-Wv. F¶m kzbw a\-Ên-em-¡m³ Ign-bm¯ \nwt^m-am-\nb F¶ am\-knI tcmK-¯nsâ DS-a-bp-am-W-hÀ.

hfsc {Iqc-amb sIme]m-X-I-§Ä¡v B \Kcw km£n-bm-Ip-¶p. F¶m Cu sIme]m-X-I-§-sfm¶pw Xs¶ {]mY-anI At\z-j-W-¯n XnI¨pw km[m-c-W-amb A]-I-S-§tfm Bß-l-Xy-Itfm Bbn-cp-¶p. Pko-\-bpsS `À¯mhpw c­p Ip«n-I-fpw kplr¯pw sImÃs¸-Sp-¶p. ]ns¶bpw \S-¡p¶ ac-W-§Ä¡v ]n¶n Pko-\-bpsS am\-knI tcmK-am-sW¶v Bcpw kwi-bn-¡p-¶n-Ã. Pko\ F¶ kv{Xo kaq-l-¯nsâ ap¶n am\y-bm-sW-¦nepw kz´w IpSpw-_-¯nepw AhÄ sImÃp¶-h-cpsS IpSpw-_-_-Ô-§-fn-ep-­m-Ip¶ {]iv\-§Ä cq£-am-Wv. _Ô-§Ä XI-cp-¶Xpw km¼-¯nI {]iv\-§-fp-­m-Ip-¶Xpw AXv IpSpw-_-¯nse Hmtcm hyàn-tbbpw F§ns\ _m[n-¡p-¶-sh-¶Xpw Pko-\bv¡v {]iv\-tab-Ã.

F¶m Hcp L«-¯n Xsâ-bp-Ånse sIme]m-X-In-sb-¡p-dn¨pw ssewKn-I-X-tbm-SpÅ Aan-Xm-k-àn-sb-¡p-dn¨pw AhÄ hÃmsX DXvI-WvT-s¸-Sm³ XpS-§p-¶p. AtX XpSÀ¶v Xm³ ]nSn-¡-s¸Spw F¶ `bw hf-cp-Ibpw sN¿p-¶p. tUmIvSÀ AcpWpw dmÂ^pw Pko-\-bn \n¶pw AÛp-X-I-c-ambn c£-s¸-Sp-¶Xv AhfpsS Pohn-X-K-Xnsb amäp-¶p. kp\n amXyp F¶ {Inan-\ sskt¡m-f-Pn-Ìnsâ klm-b-t¯msS Pko-\-bnse am\-knI tcmKn-tbbpw AXn \n¶p-­mb sIme]m-X-I-§-fpsS NpcpÄ \nh-cp-Ibpw sN¿p-¶p.

PLOT

BUw-_-c-Po-hn-X-¯n\pw ssewKn-I-Xbv¡pw th­n F´pw sN¿m³ aSn-bn-Ãm-bn-cp¶p Pko\ F¶ kv{Xobv¡v. Pko-\-bpsS aSn-bn Xe-sh¨p InS-¡p¶ ]m{SnIv Xsâ ap³Ime Pohn-X-s¯-¡p-dn-t¨mÀ¡p-¶p. Ct¸mÄ i¿m-h-ew-_-\mb Xs¶ AXoh kpµ-cn-bmb Pko\ ip{iq-jn-¡p-¶p. Pohn-X-¯nse F{Xtbm kt´m-j-I-c-amb \nan-j-§-fn-eqsS R§Ä IS-¶p-h-¶p. CW-¡-§fpw ]nW-¡-§fpw \nd-sªmcp Pohn-Xw. Ah-fpsS hnhm-lm-`yÀ°-\-I-sfÃmw Rm³ \nc-kn¨p sIm­ncp-¶p. CXn-s\-¡p-dn¨v ]m{SnIv Ipä-t_m-[-t¯msS Pko-\-tbmSv am¸p tNmZn-¡p-¶p.

F¶m Pko\ ]d-bp-¶p, ]m{Sn-Iv, \o GXm\pw \nan-j-§Ä¡Iw acn-¡pw. `£-W-¯n amc-I-amb hnjw IeÀ¯n C©n-©mbn Rm³ \ns¶ sImÃpI-bm-bn-cp-¶p. A§-s\-bmWv \o amdm-tcm-Kn-bm-b-Xv. ]m{Sn-¡nsâ ac-W-¯n BÀ¡pw kwibw tXm¶n-bn-Ã. BÀ`m-S-t¯m-Sp-Iq-Snb PohnXw ]qÀÆm-[nIw `wKn-bmbn AhÄ XpSÀ¶p.

]m{Sn-Insâ kplr-¯mb PmIvk³ Pko-\sb ImWm-s\-¯p-¶p. Pko-\-bpsS kuµ-cy-¯n PmIvk³ BIr-jvS-\m-Ip-¶p. Pko\ Abmsf hio-I-cn-¡p-¶p. Xm³ hnhm-ln-X-\m-sW¶ Imcyw AbmÄ Pko-\-bn \n¶pw ad¨p sh¡p-¶p. PmIvksâ `mcy Abmsf hf-sc-b-[nIw kvt\ln-¡p¶ Hcp kv{Xobm-Wv. CXv Abm-fn Ipä-t_m-[-ap-­m-¡p-¶p. XpSÀ¶v PmIvksâ PohnXw kwLÀj-`-cn-X-am-Ip-¶p. F¶n-cp-¶mepw Pko-\-bn BIr-jvS-\mb AbmÄ Ah-fp-ambn Hcp-
c-l-ky-Po-hnXw \bn-¡p-¶p. PmIvk-\p-am-bpÅ _Ô-¯n AhÄ ]e A]-I-S-§-fnepw sN¶p NmSp-¶p. PmIvk¬ hnhm-ln-X-\m-sW¶ Imcyw Pko\ Adn-bp-¶p. X{´-]-c-ambn Abm-fpsS kzs¯Ãmw Ah-Ä ssI¡-em-¡p-¶p. Abmsf sImÃm³ AhÄ Icp-¡Ä \o¡p-¶p. HSp-hn A{]-Xo-£n-X-amb kml-N-cy-¯n hI-h-cp-¯p-¶p.

Pko-\-bp-am-bpÅ PmIvksâ _Ôw cl-ky-am-b-Xn-\m Bcpw Ahsf kwi-bn-¡p-¶n-Ã. GIm-´X Ahsf De-¨p. Nne ka-b¯v lmeyqkn-t\-j³ A\p-`-h-s¸«p XpS-§n. Xsâ \o¡-§Ä Btcm a\-Ên-em-¡p-¶-Xm-bn, Xs¶ ]n³Xp-S-cp-¶-Xmbn AhÄ¡p tXm¶n. Hcp XpW-bv¡mbn Iq«p-Im-cnbmb ImX-do³ Ah-tfm-sSm¸w Xma-kn-¡p-hm³ XpS§n. Pko-\bv¡v ImX-dosâ \o¡-§Ä kwi-bm-kv]-Z-ambn tXm¶p-¶p Pko\ Icp-¡Ä \o¡p¶p. ImX-dos\ ab-¡p-a-cp-¶n\v ASn-a-bm-¡p-Ibpw sImes¸-Sp-¯p-Ibpw sN¿p-¶p. ImX-dos\ sImes¸-Sp-¯n-b-tXmsS Pko\ IqSp-X `b-s¸-Sm³ XpS-§n. FÃm-h-tcbpw kwi-b-t¯msS t\m¡m³ XpS-§n. {Iqc-Ir-Xy-§Ä sNbvXp-sh-¦nepw kwi-bm-ep-hm-sW-¦nepw Bfp-I-fpsS ap¶n hfsc {]k-¶-h-Xnbpw BVy-Xz-ap-Å-h-fp-ambn Pko\ s]cp-am-dn. kaq-l-¯nsâ ap¶n hyàn-Xz-ap-sÅmcp kv{Xobm-bn-cp¶p Pko-\. AXn-\m Xs¶ aäp-Å-hÀ Ahsf kwi-bn-¨-Xp-an-Ã. Hmtcm sIme]m-XIw sN¿p-t¼mgpw Xsâ ap³Ime PohnXw Ah-fpsS a\-Ên-te¡v hcp¶p­v (Flash back). B ka-b¯v AhÄ Hcp D·m-Znsb (Histeeria)t]mse s]cp-am-dp-¶p. Akm-[m-c-W-amb DÄ`-bhpw lmeq-kn-t\-j\pw Ahsf hÃmsX Akz-Ø-s¸-Sp-¯p-¶p-­v. F¶m GXv kml-k-¯n\v apXn-cm-\p-apÅ DÄt{]-cW (Compulsion) Ah-fn-ep­v .

PzÃdn DS-a-Ø-\mb tPmÀÖv F¶ a[y-h-b-kvIs\ Pko\ t\m«-an-Sp-¶p. ssZh-`-b-apÅ tPmÀÖv c­p Ip«n-I-fp-ambn k´p-jvS-Po-hnXw \bn¡p¶ hyàn-bm-Wv. F¶m Icp-¡Ä \o¡n Abm-fpsS IpSpw_w inYn-e-am-¡p-¶p. tPmÀÖnsâ ap¶n Ipeo-\bmbn s]cp-am-dn-sIm­v Abm-fp-ambn ASp-¡p-¶p. tPmÀÖnsâ `mcy ]nW-§n-t¸m-Ip-¶p. Pko\ tPmÀÖn\pw Ip«n-IÄ¡p-sam¸w Xma-kn-¡m³ XpS-§n. tPmÀÖnsâ `mcy Pko-\-bpsS \o¡-§Ä {i²n-¡p-¶p.

tPmÀÖnsâ c­p Ip«n-IÄ¡pw Aev]m-ev]-ambn hnjw \ÂIn sImÃp¶p. Ipªp-§-fpsS acWw tPmÀÖns\ Pko-\-bp-ambn IqSp-X ASp-¸n-¡p-¶p. (tPmÀÖv A{]-Xo-£n-X-ambn Hcp tIkn IpSp-§p-¶p. AXns\ XpSÀ¶v AbmÄ Xsâ kz¯nsâ \sÃmcp ]¦v cl-ky-ambn Pko-\-bpsS t]cn-em-¡p-¶p. tIkn IpSp-¡p-¶Xv Pko-\-bm-Wv)

Bkq-{Xn-X-ambn X¿m-dm-¡nb Hcp A]-I-S-¯n tPmÀÖv sImÃs¸-Sp-¶p. ac-W-¯n `mcybv¡v kwibw tXm¶p-¶p. t]meokv At\z-j-W-¯n Pko-\-bvs¡-Xnsc H¶pw Is­-¯m-\m-Ip-¶n-Ã. kzm`m-hnI ac-W-ambn t]meokv tIkv Ah-km-\n-¸n-¡p-¶p. Ipd¨p \mfp-IÄ Pko\ GIm-´-hmkw \bn-¡p-¶p. F¶m BÀ`m-S-Po-hn-X-t¯mSpw skIvkn-t\m-Sp-apÅ Xzc Pko-\-bpsS a\-Êns\ hn{`-an-¸n-¡p-¶p. Hcp ]cn-]m-Sn-¡nsS Xs¶-¡mÄ hbÊp Ipdª tUm.-A-cp-Wns\ Pko\ ]cn-N-b-s¸-Sp-¶p. At±lw hnhm-ln-X-\m-Im³ t]mIp¶ hyàn-bm-Wv. F¶m Xsâ NmXpcyw sIm­v Acp-Wns\ AhÄ X¶n-te¡v ASp-¸n-¡p-¶p. F¶m Xm³ hnhmlw Ign-¡m³ t]mIp¶ kv{Xosb NXn-¡m\pw AbmÄ X¿m-dm-Ip-¶n-Ã. X\n¡v {]Xn-tbm-Kn-bmb h[p-hns\ Pko\ sImes¸-Sp-¯p-¶p. {Kma-¯nse hoSp hn¡p-hm³ Acp¬ Pko-\sb \nÀ_-Ôn-¡p-¶p.

hoSv hm§m³ hcp-¶Xv dmÂ^v, tImSo-iz-c³, kpµ-c³, hn`m-cy³. Pko-\-bpsS {i² Abm-fn-te-¡m-Ip-¶p. Xm³ Dt±-in-¡p¶ Xc-¯n-epÅ km¼-¯nI Npäp-]mSv
Acp-Wn-\nà F¶v a\-Ên-em¡nb Pko\ Abmsf Hgn-hm-¡m³ {ian-¡p¶p. AhÄ dmÂ^p-ambn ASp-¡p-¶p.

F¶m Acp-Wn\v Pko-\-bpsS \o¡-§-fn kwibw tXm¶p-¶p. Xsâ kplr-¯mb {Inan-\ sskt¡m-f-PnÌv tUm.kp\n amXyp-hp-ambn CXv NÀ¨ sN¿p-¶p. FÃmw \ocn-£n-¡p¶ AhÀ dmÂ^v sImÃs¸-Sp-sa¶v a\-kn-em-¡p-Ibpw Ahsf IpSp-¡m-\pÅ {ia-§Ä Bcw-`n-¡p-Ibpw sN¿p-¶p.Milton H Ericson F¶ a\x-im-kv{X-Úsâ Covert Hypnosis Technic F¶ kt¦Xw D]-tbm-Kn¨v kp\n amXyp, Pko-\-bpsS ]qÀÆ-Ime PohnXw a\-kn-em-¡p-¶p. hfsc {]i-kvX-amb IpSpw-_-¯nse AwK-am-sW-¦nepw Ac£nX-amb Hcp Ip«n-¡m-e-am-bn-cp¶p Pko-\-bp-tS-Xv. ]e Zpc-´-§-fn
-eq-sSbpw (Truamatic experience) AhÄ IS-¶p-t]m-Ip-¶p-­v. A½-bv¡p-­m-bn-cp¶ cl-ky-_-Ôs¯ AhÄ a\-kn-em-¡p-Ibpw Hcp Peeping Tom s\t¸mse AÑ\pw A½bpw X½n-epÅ _Ôs¯ AhÄ Hfn-ªp-t\m¡n ckn-¡p-Ibpw sNbvXncp-¶p. AhÄ {Iqc-amb ]oU-\-§Ä¡v Cc-bm-bn-«p-­v.

P·\m \nwt^m-am-\n-bmIv Bb Pko\ C¯cw kml-N-cy-§-fn-eqsS IS¶v h¶v IqSp-XÂ am\-knI sshI-ey-ap-Å-h-fmbn amdp-I-bm-bn-cp-¶p.

tUmIvSÀ kp\n amXyphpw Iq«cpw Bkq-{Xn-X-ambn X¿m-dm-¡nb Hcp sIWn-bnÂs¸-Sp¯n Pko-\sb \nb-a-¯n\p ap¶n sIm­ph-cp-¶p. F¶m hyà-amb sXfn-hp-I-fn-Ãm-¯-Xn-\m tImSXn Ahsf shdpsX hnSm³ X¿m-dm-Ip-¶p. F¶m AÑ-s\bpw A½-tbbpw `À¯m-hn-t\bpw c­v Ip«n-I-sfbpw sImes¸-Sp-¯n-b-XpÄs¸sSbpÅ sR«n-¡p¶ kXy-§Ä Gäp-]-dªv Pko\ in£ kzbw Gäp-hm-§p¶p.

Conceived by

Prasad Amore MA, Msc, HPD (NCFE and NCH, U.K)

Consultant Psychologist

my heart blowing

It was not unusual but,

beyond common folk unexpected

ruminative senescence.

It was not a flirt sensitive compulsive

sensitization but someone keep in their

unkind state.....

people here do not think the blood is thicker

than the water.Poverty made them numb.

Some faces lost its pretty ,,,,drying out

....dearth but,they are chubby so they are threw

out to whore house where there is no flower

breeze is no more, so all of them inward is

simmering .Life is not nourishing , deprivation dwarfism.

my heart blowing

It was not unusual but,

beyond common folk unexpected

ruminative senescence.

It was not a flirt sensitive compulsive

sensitization but someone keep in their

unkind state.....

people here do not think the blood is thicker

than the water.Poverty made them numb.